Kinas Sofrim: When Yes When No

Devarim

In Parshas Devorim, which we read this week,
It mentions coveting; and of coveting Torah scholars I will speak.

First things first: If Reuven is upset that Shimon knows more,
Well to wish others know less? That is not what coveting Torah scholars, (kinas sofrim) is for.

If no jealousy exists, and Shimon's diligence to Reuven is a motivating force,
Well that is healthy,  and positive of course.

Let's say Reuven is jealous, But that Shimon knows a lot makes Reuven happy, deep in his heart,
That is what kinas sofrim is, and that is a good place to start.

However kinas sofrim, is good but not ideal.
It is a concept aimed at those who already, jealousy they feel.

For  instance, instead of being jealous, that your neighbor has nicer clothes,
At least be jealous of something important, like the Torah that he knows.
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But there is a higher level, a level so sublime.
Where Reuven feels no jealousy, and with Shimon knowing more he is just fine.

I try very hard," Reuven says. "I learn on my own level
"It is in in my own efforts and accomplishments, in which I revel.

"I am a separate entity from Shimon. Shimon a separate entity from me.
I feel no jealousy, and that is the way it ought to be."

To not compare yourself to others, and to feel no jealousy is great.
Try harder in your learning, but at your own rate.

In conclusion: No question. Try to avoid coveting others' happiness, honor, or wealth.
It is a good antidote, for your mental and physical health!